DOMINATRIX

A Dominatrix can mean different things to different people. There is no set of rules that defines the meaning of a Dominatrix. In fact there is often a wide difference from one Dominatrix to another.

A Dominatrix in general refers to a Female that is the dominant partner in a relationship. The partner of the Dominatrix is often called a submissive.

The Dominatrix may also be involved in other areas of domination including discipline, bondage and more. Often a Dominatrix will also cuckold her submissive partner. More and more men these days are seeking out a Dominatrix partner.

A quality, professional Female Dominatrix relationship requires stability, trust and intense emotional awareness, and it can be extremely rewarding for both the female taking the lead and the man submitting to her will.

As a profession, a Domme can successfully support herself while taking care of submissive men that want her services. Most full-time Dommes have their own studios, or dungeons, complete with all the props necessary to control and manipulate the men that wish to enlist their services. Cages, chains, whips and other devices may be used. The relationship with the client is always consensual, with the Submissive man and the Domme agreeing to terms and conditions before the relationship ever begins. And while sexual favors might be a part of such a relationship, it is not the norm. Many Submissive men simply want to be told what to do, to be confined or chained, or to experience pain in a way that brings them intense pleasure. A professional Dominatrix understands these desires of the Submissive man, and creates scenarios specifically designed to meet their needs. Sadomasochism is certainly involved as are psychological triggers. A professional Domme needs to be able to read the Submissive man well and know how to give him what he wants in a way that heightens his experience, leaving him wanting more. Dommes are highly intelligent, and feel great pleasure from helping the men that come to them. It is not about wanting to hurt men or wanting to abuse others, it is solely about the intense emotions felt from controlling another personís experience and leaving them fulfilled. This is a huge responsibility, but the Submissives pay up to $300 an hour for the experience. The most talented Dominatrix women can easily make this a full-time job, with multiple clients that require their services.



There are also women who choose to live a Dominatrix lifestyle with a Submissive male partner for a long-term, lasting relationship. Consensual sadomasochistic relationships often benefit both partners, as the desire to control and be controlled run deeply within each partnerís psyche. A trusting, lasting relationship can allow both partners to fully live their desires, pushing their limits and making them better people both inside the dungeon and outside in their daily lives. The relationship is completely built on trust, with the Domme deciding what and how and where the limits are placed for the Submissive man, and the man relishing in the freedom of having the consequences of his actions taken away.

Keep in mind that all of these relationships are consensual. No one is forced into corporal pain or torture without their consent, and the Dommes themselves are not malicious or intent upon hurting others. This play situation merely serves as a vehicle for pleasure, allowing both partners to fully trust one another and experience a dark, seductive magic. Female Dominatrix relationships can offer an intense, pleasurable fantasy for both the Domme and the Submissive.

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