There are beautiful Domina Women everywhere. These Domina deserve to be served and obeyed by pathetic men. For thousands of years Domina women have ruled the earth. And for thousands of years men have wanted to serve and obey Domina Women. These days there are more Domina women then ever before. Men all around the world are starting to learn more about serving and obeying these Domina women.
Domina List provides a comprehensive review of the Domina Women lifestyle and the men that serve and obey them.
Domina List also provides both the submissive and Domina a guide to the lifestyle as well as advice.
Dating a Domina Woman
Dating a Domina requires a whole lot of dedication and hard work. The Domina will always decide where to go and what to do. The date will always be about the Domina and what she wants and nothing about you. You will need to always be obedient while on the date and do exactly what the Domina tells you. You will need to serve Her while on the date and she may also enjoy to humiliate you.
There are some men that are lucky enough to marry a Domina. Being married to a Domina woman is a life time of serving and obeying and living under very strict control. You may serve as a slave husband or a submissive husband and you may even be a cuckold husband to your domina wife. The Domina will train you both before the marriage and during. In effect, training will continue through your life.
Many Domina women love to train a man to serve as a slave. They may train these men to serve as a part time slave or as a full time slave. Often a slave contract will be involved. Serving as a slave for a Domina is a lot of hard work and dedication. Make sure this is what you want in your life because once you start serving it will be all about what the Domina wants in life.
Many Domina are involved in the strap-on training of men. Strap-on training is a great form of domination an an ideal way to keep a slave obedient. Strap-on training is something that is on going and the Domina will increase the size of the strap-on over time.
Sissy Maid Training
Serving as a sissy maid may sometimes be part of serving a Domina woman. Often the Domina woman will dress the male up in a French maids outfit and train him to do the house chores. Any chores that are not done to the satisfaction of the Domina will result in discipline.
Serving and obeying a Domina Woman
There are many submissive men out there who desire to serve and obey a Domina woman. Sometimes they just want to be a slave for the Domina, but at other times they are interested in getting involved in a relationship with the Domina. The problem for many men is that they do not understand what is required to serve and obey a Domina woman. There is a lot of learning involved and that can take years.
Many Domina women love to humiliate submissive men both in private and in public. The humiliation may take on various forms both verbal and physical. The humiliation may be mild or it may be extreme.
Some Domina like to give a slave a really good face slapping. Sometimes they enjoy to slap his face in private and at other times they slap his face in public. Sometimes the face slapping is mild but at other times the slave may get a really heavy face slapping from the Domina.
Many Domina like to train a submissive man to do forced-bi. So men are happy to learn forced-bi but others not. In the end it does not matter if they want to learn to do forced-bi or not as the Domina will still train them to do it.
Safe Words are used by a submissive as a way to communicate with the Domina. The safe words are used as a way of communicating their emotional or physical state to the Domina. Safe words are a must in all activities between a Domina and a submissive and must be respected at all times. There is no excuse to ignore a safe word. Some safe words are used to immediately Stop the activity while other safe words are used to lower the intensity of the activity. It is important that everyone understands the importance of safe words and at all times a submissive should feel comfortable about using safe words.
This is a term within the BDSM scene to describe a place or state of thought that the submissive may be in during a scene. It is important for the Domina to be aware when a submissive is in subspace making sure they are safe. Subspace is only for the very experienced.
Australia has a large Domina network and many many men and women who are submissives and slaves. You will find the large cities like Melbourne, Sydney and Perth all have a good Domina scene. Up in Queensland in Brisbane and on the Gold Coast you will find many Domina. Salon Kitty's has located in Sydney is one of the oldest BDSM establishments in Australia and a must for any visiting submissive or slave. They have some of the best equipment in the world. The Correction Centre located in Melbourne offers one of the best Dungeon/BDSM establishments in the world. They have been around a long time and have very experienced, Mistresses, Submissives, and Masters. In Perth you must be sure to visit the Fetish Manor, a multi-room dungeon that offers the best of all elements of fetish and BDSM. Laws regarding BDSM vary from state to state and are very open and accepting of the lifestyle.
Thailand may have the biggest Domina scene in all of Asia. There are so many Thai women that are Dominant and there are a range of Domina clubs across Thailand. Bangkok, Pattaya and Phuket all have a strong Domina scene with many clubs. Demonia Fetish and BDSM Club on Sukhumvit, Bangkok is a must to visit for all submissives and slaves.
Many women find that traditional marriages are stifling. Men are supposed to be in control according to society, but why should they be when the woman is the one that runs the household and truly holds the power. This can drive some women mad, and can actually end many marriages as the woman feels powerless and unappreciated despite her effort as the true leader of the house. Some women, however, realize the natural gift they have for leading, the innate ability they posses to be in control and be worshipped as the goddess they are. The women are Dominant women, and if they’re lucky, they can find men that will submit to their will and will let them lead, or they can convince their husbands to let this transition occur. For Dominant Wives, there simply isn’t another way to be truly happy and fulfilled at home.
A Dominant Wife leads her family. She is the one that makes decisions and choices, and she is always the final say. Her husband accepts this role of power, and he defers to her authority at all times. He is also expected to submit to her will, fulfill her needs and desires, and obey her every wish and command. A Dominant Wife is in control of the finances, even if the husband is the main bread winner. She may work outside the home as well, but is not required to. At home, she makes sure the house runs smoothly, dictating chores and responsibilities to everyone in the household. She is also the commander in the bedroom, demanding her needs be met first in the way that pleases her most. A true Dominant Wife will also possess the power to punish and discipline her husband if he is not living up to expectations.
Many husbands are not naturally submissive, but once they experience the full, devastating power of their wives in a position of power, they quickly submit as they watch their wives truly flourish. These men typically find that once they submit, they enjoy the sensation of being put in their places and crave increasingly more submissive activities. A Dominant Wife is a true force to be reckoned with, and submissive husbands realize that their wives are truly goddesses meant to control and lead.
For Dominant Wives, they find true fulfillment in their ability to control the family and be the master of their family’s destiny. It is not easy, and it requires a lot of work and responsibility to take on this role. But the freedom of being in charge, of being allowed to make the decisions and shoulder that responsibility is what makes most women feel alive and vital. A marriage where a naturally dominant woman is allowed to act as a Dominant Wife is extremely fulfilling, and allows the woman to be her true self in the relationship. Many women can’t imagine any other way to live, and those lucky enough to be in the Dominant Wife role relish in the power and freedom the BDSM community offers them instead of what traditional society dictates.
We’ve all seen the images of a powerful woman, whip in hand, punishing her lowly male subjects. It’s quintessential BDSM imagery, but one that’s based on the actual lifestyle of the Domina, one of the most popular and most provocative roles in the community. Many people would assume that a good Domina is simply a powerful woman that has a thing for making men suffer, but there’s so much more to the role. A good Domina is everything from a leader to a protector to a nurturer, and these women must have very special and distinctive personalities to take on this challenging role. They have to not only know what they want and be bold enough to reach out and grab it, they must also be acutely tuned to the needs of those around them, something that is instinctual. And while a Domina might just be another pretty face with a fetish for kink, the best ones are so much more.
So what makes the best Dominas rise above? What makes these lovely ladies more than just a woman giving orders? And how do you know when you’ve found one of the truly great ones?
A Domina can be many things, but she certainly cannot be timid. Men that seek out domination fetish play or a Dom and sub relationship don’t want a woman who is meek, quiet, shy, or otherwise submissive, they want that bold,bossy woman that will demand, in no uncertain terms, exactly what she wants and exactly how she is going to get it. Now that doesn’t mean that a good Domina can’t be shy in her day to day life, but when it’s time to put on the corset and spend time with her subs, she must be bold, brash, and ready to take charge.
Boldness also means that she isn't afraid to make demands or ask for what she wants. And this is something that distinguishes Dominas from average women. Most average women do know what they want. They know exactly what they want. And they know how to get it. But they are too afraid or too shy to go out and get it. They’re afraid of what others think, or that they might hurt someone’s feelings, or that it’s too unattainable. But a good Domina knows that what she wants is of the utmost importance, and she is not afraid to do what it takes to get it. She will boldly demand that life meets her needs, and while she may have to step on some toes or endure some sidelong glances along the way, she’s not afraid to keep moving forward.
This may seem obvious, but a good Domina knows how to utilize her own unique and natural powers of seduction to get what she wants. It may be that she wears just the right outfit to compliment her figure, or maybe she knows just how to arch her back to drive men wild. But she is conscious of her seductive powers. She has practiced them. And she knows how to use them to drive men wild.
Again this is where a great Domina differs from an average one, or even from a typical woman. Every woman knows her own seductive powers. She’s analyzed her own look, her own personality, and she knows what is sexy and what isn’t. But many women are too afraid to use what they’ve got, to be proud of it, and to show it off in a way that is overtly sexual and overtly powerful, even though they should. A great Domina has this down to a science, and she not only takes great pride in her seductive gifts, she knows how to use them to get what she wants, flaunting her sexiness and making it a part of who she is.
Not many people would consider a Domina’s role nurturing, not when wielding a whip or handcuffs, but her role in dominating men actually requires a lot of empathy, understanding, and caring. She has to get into the minds of her subs, find out what they want and why they want it, and then provide it to them (or withhold it) in a way that helps the subs to better themselves. A lot of people enter Dom and sub play and relationships because they have deep psychological needs or desires that can’t be met through traditional relationships, and sometimes they find healing, acceptance, and a sense of peace when they participate in these situations. A great Domina will find out her sub’s motivations, and she will try to provide that missing element in his life that will allow him to be fully happy and satisfied. Sometimes this requires painful or uncomfortable situations, and only a Domina that can see the bigger picture and can think about how the tough love will help the sub in the long run will truly be great in her role.
So how do you know when you’ve found a great Domina? For most subs, it’s quite instinctual. They simply feel happier and more balanced in her presence. They leave her sessions feeling alive and open, and they notice a change in their entire being. All Dominas can punish you. Any Domina can prescribe sexual pain or kink play or humiliation. But only the Dominas that exude these characteristics of boldness, seduction, and nurturing do these things in a way that let the sub know he is truly being cared for. Her intentions will come across in every action, every word, and the sub will know that even when things are tough, it’s for his own good. He’ll be able to feel that she is doing these painful things, emotionally and physically, not for her gain or benefit, but for his. And he will be inexplicably drawn to her like a moth to the light.
There are many types and styles of great Dominas, and a great Domina can be many things. But she will always be bold, seductive, and nurturing. And once you’ve found her, don’t let her out of your sight!
For many men, there is nothing more alluring, more attractive than a Dominant woman. And it’s not only submissive men that desire a powerfully evocative experience of servitude, regular men in regular vanilla relationships are also drawn to these powerful women. Nearly every man has experienced at least a passing interest in Domme women, even if they don’t choose to act upon these desires. But what is it about Dominant woman that makes vanilla men intrigued and drives submissive men to great lengths to earn their attention and favor?
Dominant women are a very special breed. They are powerful, seductive, and alluring, but most importantly, they are confident. A Dominant woman is confident in her own power. She knows what she wants, and she knows exactly how to get it. She isn’t afraid to demand that others meet her needs, and she moves through live with conviction. Many men desire this quality in a woman because they themselves are not confident in their own being, and they don’t feel assured that they are on the right path. These men are desperately seeking guidance, and a Dominant woman can give them this guidance by ordering them around and making decisions for them.
Another quality Dommes possess that drive men wild is their compassion. This may seem strange that a woman commonly seen holding a whip and handcuffs is considered compassionate, but most Dommes are actually quite caring and protective of their male subjugates. They don’t dish out punishment or give orders because they are maniacal and addicted to making people suffer, they do it because they know that it is what these men need. Most Dominant women are actually just as in tune to the needs of their subs as they are of their own, and they work very hard to ensure that the subs get exactly what they need, even if it causes them pain. This level of compassion and devotion is something that most men desperately desire, and they crave the attention that Dommes can give them, even if it is painful at times.
Men are also drawn to the uniquely feminine traits that most Dommes possess, and their ability to fully accept their roles as the more intelligent and superior. Deep down, most men recognize that women truly are superior. That’s why women are so often suppressed in cultures around the world. Men in power fear the true power of women and know they must do something to keep their power under control lest they lose it forever. Worshipping or even just fantasizing about a Domme allows men to live out their true beliefs that state women are the better. It is doubly powerful because these women recognize this superiority themselves, and both parties can take on their true roles, even if only for a short play session.
There are many reasons a man might turn to a Dominant woman, and no two men have exactly the same reasons. But for most men, the Domme’s confidence, compassion, and recognition of superiority make her a powerful character, someone that men want to follow and please so that they can be near. Her acceptance of her own inherent power makes her desirable, and men want to be close to women that know who they are and what they want. Not all men may become slaves or experience BDSM play, but every man will at some point in their lives recognize and even fantasize about the powerful Domme as these qualities are simply irresistible.
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